As I am an experienced relocatee myself, I understand the sense of loneliness and isolation that can hit relocatees after the job has been accepted and again after transfer has been made. Quite often after the adventure of the move has died down it is replaced by a small panic and sense of “ I want to go home!’. This feeling is particularly relevant in the case of the spouse. There are a few crucial stages when you need to know you can rely on someone; before you move, when you arrive in Dublin and after the settling in period when sometimes things are tough – what you will know is that you have someone to call on.